Friday, October 12, 2007

Pictures - Week 13 - Continued

Sitting in front of what has become my Belgian Home for the last 3 months...
Jessica and I pose in front of my favorite Belgian Lake... Lake Genval. (So, maybe it is the only lake I've really had a chance to be around in Belgium... it's still my favorite! :-)
Jessica and I toast on my last day in Belgium... this trip anyhow!
posing in front of the Chateau de La Hulpe... Thank you Jessica for photographing this picture! :-)
One last glimpse of Belgium before being enveloped by the notorious Belgian mist and clouds!

Pictures - Week 13

The amazing sign in front of the European Parliament which identifies the parliament in every language used by the countries that make up the European Union. SOOO cool!
Jessica and I enjoying the train ride to and from the European Parliament. Many people think it is incredible that we could be as old as we are without ever having ridden the train. In Belgium, children start riding the trains on their own at a very young age!
Looking for a ride into Brussels. Actually, this was just Jessica and I being goofy. :-)
Taking a look around outside my 3rd floor bedroom on a B-EAUTIFUL day! I actually did this quite a bit during my three months in Belgium. On warm evenings I would often open my window and stick my head out to admire the sky, moon, and earth around me. It was so peaceful and beautiful! This is also how I took my sequence of pictures of the church in the center of Genval through various times of the day and weather.
Another picture of Jessic and I being silly. We had SO much fun together, as always!!!

A Compilation of Blessings in Belgium...

One of the things Rebecca taught and demonstrated so well to me while I was with her in Belgium was how important and influential and attitude of gratitude is. And so, with that in mind, I've created a compilation of 13 weeks' worth of gratitude, praise, and blessings from my Bit 'o time in Belgium to remind me how wonderful, faithful, and amazing our God is!!!

~ MB

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Week 1
* Safe travels to get here* The kind and loving treatment, relationships, and peace in this household I am in* The relationships I am forming and people I am getting to know* The NEW sights, tasks, experiences, people, places, foods... new just about everything! * Surviving my first full week here without any major physical, emotional, spiritual, or mental breakdowns!* The "heart surgery" God's doing on and in me during this time... painful, but good. :-)* The gift of a dear family to miss*The blessing of dear friends to miss* A God that precedes and follows everywhere I go

Week 2
* Another full week gone by smoothly and happily* The peace and comfortable-ness (new word :-) I have felt here since the first few days* My wonderful friends and family who have been keeping me updated on life at home with pictures, letters, cards, and stories (Thank You!!!) * The beautiful weather and town to walk in and admire. What a neat place to get to live for 3 months!* The French I am gradually picking up and enjoying practicing (please don't ask me to say anything though... it's so Frenglais! :-) * The faithfulness of God every day... His mercies are new every morning!

Week 3
* The grace of God for me to be here, be happy, at peace, and enjoy what I am doing!* Another full week gone by smoothly and happily!* My wonderful friends and family who I am priviliged to miss! (Missing people is hard, but not having people to miss would be even harder!) * The letters, notes, e-mails, pictures, and encouragement I have received from friends and family members!* The beautiful weather, town, country, and continent to get to be in!* The life, ability, and provision God has given for me to do and be where I am right now!

Week 4
* The beautiful weather* The smoothness and peace of this week, even with a change in "typical" schedule and all the people coming and going* The wonderful people I'm getting to meet* The example of love, life, joy, and living the journey with Rebecca * The knowledge I am gaining here in areas so different from those I had at home* The ability to communicate with "all ya'll" at home and throughout the U.S.!
Week 5
* A healing wrist and good health!
* The amazing people I'm getting to meet and learn about!
* The example Rebecca is to all of us!
* The knowledge and experiences I am gaining here in areas so different from those I had at home
* The ability to communicate with "all ya'll" at home and throughout the U.S.!
* The beauty of this place and the world we live in!

Week 6
* The opportunity to sight-see a little!!!
* The amazing people I'm getting to meet and learn about!
* The giving of time and self from other people, which has allowed me to see and do what I have!
* The knowledge and experiences I am gaining here in areas so different from those I had at home
* The ability to communicate with "all ya'll" at home and throughout the U.S.!
* The beauty of this place and the world we live in!
* The amazing privilige it is to be here in this place, doing what I'm doing, with the people I'm with!
* The surprising enjoyment I have found in the challenge of learning and practicing a bit of the French language!

Week 7
* The time and ability to see the "beauty of simplicity" all around me!
* The amazing people I'm getting to meet and learn about!
* The giving of time and self from other people, which has allowed me to see and do what I have!
* The knowledge and experiences I am gaining here in areas so different from those I had at home
* The ability to communicate with "all ya'll" at home and throughout the U.S.!!
* The amazing privilige it is to be here in this place, doing what I'm doing, with the people I'm with!
* The uniqueness and intrigue of the cultures here and throughout the world that season our lives!
* Good health and physical, spiritual, and mental strength to get through each day!

Week 8
* The opportunity to sight-see a little!!!
* The amazing people I'm getting to meet and learn about!
* The giving of time and self from other people, which has allowed me to see and do what I have!
* The knowledge and experiences I am gaining here in areas so different from those I had at home
* The ability to communicate with "all ya'll" at home and throughout the U.S.!
* The beauty of this place and the world we live in!
* The amazing privilige it is to be here in this place, doing what I'm doing, with the people I'm with!
* The surprising enjoyment I have found in the challenge of learning and practicing a bit of the French language!
* God's faithfulness and grace each and every day...
* Good sleep and less tiredness this week!

Week 9
* The amazing people I'm getting to meet and learn about!
* The giving of time and self from other people, which has allowed me to see and do what I have!
* The knowledge and experiences I am gaining here in areas so different from those I had at home
* The ability to communicate with "all ya'll" at home and throughout the U.S.!
* The beauty of this place and the world we live in!
* The amazing privilige it is to be here in this place, doing what I'm doing, with the people I'm with!
* The surprising enjoyment I have found in the challenge of learning and practicing a bit of the French language!
* God's faithfulness and grace each and every day...
* The abatement of the "mystery itches"! (I actually got several more itchy red spots over the next two days after last week's post, but since then they have all started to heal and disappear and no longer itch... yeah! :-)

Week 10
* The amazing people I'm getting to meet and learn about!
* The giving of time and self from other people, which has allowed me to see and do what I have!
* The knowledge and experiences I am gaining here in areas so different from those I had at home
* The ability to communicate with "all ya'll" at home and throughout the U.S.!
* The beauty of this place and the world we live in!
* The amazing privilige it is to be here in this place, doing what I'm doing, with the people I'm with!
* The surprising enjoyment I have found in the challenge of learning and practicing a bit of the French language!
* God's faithfulness and grace each and every day...
* God's little and big miracles I've gotten to experience and grow in faith through
* The ways I've been "pushed" to grow up and do things I may not have dreamed of doing before this!

Week 11
* The amazing people I'm getting to meet and learn about!
* The giving of time and self from other people, which has allowed me to see and do what I have!
* The knowledge and experiences I am gaining here in areas so different from those I had at home!
* The ability to communicate with "all ya'll" at home and throughout the U.S.!
* The beauty of this place and the world we live in!
* The amazing privilige it is to be here in this place, doing what I'm doing, with the people I'm with!
* The surprising enjoyment I have found in the challenge of learning and practicing a bit of the French language!
* God's faithfulness and grace each and every day...
* God's little and big miracles I've gotten to experience and grow in faith through
* The ways I've been "pushed" to grow up and do things I may not have dreamed of doing before this!
* The ability to be able to capture and share some of this experience through pictures, videos, and e-mails!
* The prayers of my friends and family and the many ways I've seen them answered... faith builders indeed!

Week 12
* The amazing people I'm getting to meet and learn about!* The giving of time and self from other people, which has allowed me to see and do what I have!* The knowledge and experiences I am gaining here in areas so different from those I had at home! * The ability to communicate with "all ya'll" at home and throughout the U.S.!* The beauty of this place and the world we live in!* The amazing privilige it is to be here in this place, doing what I'm doing, with the people I'm with! * The surprising enjoyment I have found in the challenge of learning and practicing a bit of the French language!* God's faithfulness and grace each and every day...* God's little and big miracles I've gotten to experience and grow in faith through * The ways I've been "pushed" to grow up and do things I may not have dreamed of doing before this!* The ability to be able to capture and share some of this experience through pictures, videos, and e-mails! * The prayers of my friends and family and the many ways I've seen them answered... faith builders indeed!* JESSICA arriving safely and doing well so far in the adjustment!* The opportunity to share this experience with a dear friend and also get to spend a few days together before I leave! * 3 months gone by in a blink of an eye... sometimes a blessing, sometimes not so much! :-/

Week 13
* Safe travel back to the United States of America, Ohio, and my family and friends!
* The gift that my friends and family are to me!
* The awesome greeting party awaiting me at the airport!
* A smooth and fascinating transition back into life with my family in the U.S. of A.
* The experience and opportunity I had to do what I did and be where I was...
* The growth, knowledge, and changes that have take place in me over these past 3 months
* The faithfulness of God to be with me at every moment, in every location, and for my entire life!

Bits [not] from Belgium - Week 13 - (Week 1 Back in Ohio!)

~ Psalm 108:1-5 ~

Bonjour les Amis et la Famille!

So this is it...

No matter how much I love and have enjoyed the Petries, Belgium, and writing the Bits from Belgium, these Bits must be the last... because I am no longer in Belgium.

I am left rather speechless as to what to say or how to conclude these written updates from my Belgian adventures. Like a strange, amazing, wonderful dream, I have “awakened” back home with all the familiar friends, family, and sights, and though three months has changed many little things, much of life here remains the same as it was before I left.
But this was no dream, and I carry and treasure inside of me three months worth of incredible memories, adventures, knowledge, and people that have and will leave a lasting mark on my heart and mind for the rest of my life! I don’t think I’ve changed much on the outside, but on the inside I feel like I have grown up so much in these past 3 months! I think I have learned a little more about the person God has created and desires me to be, and have also realized that this will be a life-long process! I believe life is a constant progression of surrendering, listening, obeying, and following God, and through this process, He shows us more and more of His purpose for our lives and why He made us who, where, and the way we are. My adventures in planning, going, and returning from Belgium sure seem to have been that way, anyhow!
This journey through life is quite an adventure, (in case you haven’t noticed!), and I have found it to be so VERY much more amazing, enjoyable, satisfying, and fulfilling when in the company and fellowship of my Creator. The whole idea of the trip itself and many of the things I did while in Belgium were activities I never would have dreamed of doing “on my own” before. My eyes have been opened to the world in a new and greater way, and I don’t think I’ll ever think or look at it the same again. The words Belgium and Europe will also never be the same to me. They now represent three months of awe, beauty, growth, friendships, and God’s unending faithfulness revealed in a whole new way!

Oh, the depth of the riches of the wisdom and knowledge of God!
How unsearchable His judgments,
And his paths beyond tracing out!
Who has known the mind of the Lord?
Or who has been His counselor?
Who has ever given to God, that God should repay him?
For from Him and through Him and to Him are all things.
To Him be the glory forever!
~~~ Romans 11:33-36 ~~~

Final Bits…
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Jeudi - 4 Octobre, 2007 – The weather was cool and cloudy, but not rainy, and the sun peeked through a few times. Today is the 6th Anniversary of the day Rebecca fell and broke her neck. We talked about it some together and Rebecca shared how she believes one can look at this day two ways. One is to be upset and bitter about the whole thing and wish for her life before the accident. The other option is to look at all the people she’s met, encouraged, and influenced, experiences she’s had, knowledge she’s gained, and ways her “tragic” situation has been the CAUSE of so much amazing good in the world! Rebecca chooses this second option, and how incredible it is! She is an amazing example to us all, and how I love her!
Paul left for a weekend trip to Vienna today, so it’s back to a house full of women again!
Jessica and I visited the European Parliament with Susannah. It is quite a place! We took the train in together and then Jessica and I rode it back after a wonderful tour from Susannah and a coffee on the Place Luxemburg. This was Jessica’s first train ride in Belgium, so that added to the fun! We took lots of fun pictures, laughed a TON, and also started teaching Jessica a bit about some of Rebecca’s care. It is strange and almost difficult for me to begin “backing off” of the tasks I’ve been doing in order to allow Jessica to start doing them. They have become such a part of my life for the past 3 months…

Vendredi - 5 Octobre, 2007 – The weather as lovely! Apparently Jessica brought us some of the Summer-like USA weather with her when she arrived! J Today was Annie's day off, as usual for Fridays, which means a busier day around the house for me. Jessica and I took some more goofy pictures, once again laughed a LOT, worked hard, and continued to introduce Jessica to more of the routine and tasks she will be doing. We watched the movie Cinderella Man in the evening.

Samedi - 6 Octobre, 2007 - GORGOUS weather! Clear,incredibly blue skies, cold in the morning and warm in the afternoon. The sun shined almost ALL day! Jessica is learning quickly and has begun working more with Rebecca, which is great, but again, rather strange for me! We went for a lovely walk this afternoon together and I showed her a couple routes to the my favorite lake and also how to get to the bank, post office, and Champion supermarket. I made a chicken marinate for the first time and Susannah grilled it along with some zuchinni. Mmmmmmm! We also had corn on the cob… the first I’ve had this year! I was suddenly reminded me how long I have been gone when I realized I left before the corn on the cob season in Ohio and would be returning too late for it. We at outside, which was LOVELY! J

Dimanche - 7 Octobre, 2007 - Another GORGOUS day! The Petrie household declared it "celebrate Mary Beth" day and went out of their way to make it a very special last day in Belgium for me. When I awoke Sunday morning, I found signs posted throughout the house with all kinds of sweet, encouraging messages, and balloons hung over the doorway in the kitchen. Before lunch, we had some hors d'oeuvres and champagne and Rebecca gave a very sweet and eloquent toast... almost bringing me to tears! For lunch we had delicious Chinois (Chinese) take out from our favorite Chinese restaurant by Lake Genval. And after lunch they gave me a whole basket of nice gifts including some Belgian chocolate, French caramels, a couple hair clips I had been introduced to during my stay, a little book of very special hand written notes from most of the people I had met and interacted with during my stay, a few other humorous and special "inside-story" gifts, a lovely red sweater, and a French Bible! I was SO excited about the French Bible, as I had been planning on asking for one for my birthday when I returned to the US. I guess I don't need to now. :-) I had read through the book of Mark while in Belgium, and am now looking forward to learning more French from some of the other books of the Bible! I had to laugh and confess though, because while I’m “reading” it looks like I'm really reading the chapters word for word, in reality, I understand only about every 6th word or so... just enough to figure out what's going on in the chapter. :-) It helped me pick up on some vocabulary, grammar, and spelling though, and I'm hoping to keep up the little bit of French I learned in Belgium, so hopefully this will help! :-) Norma also came by after our lunch and brought a delicious, still warm, home-made apple-cranberry pie! Afterwards, the ladies graciously worked it out for Norma to take Jessica and I to the Chateau de La Hulpe, where we walked for a little over an hour, admiring the scenery and talking. It was so neat to return to the Chateau with a friend! The first time I had gone I was so lonely and realized how much I desire and enjoy the company of a friend. I imagined how fun and special it would be to share the experience at the Chataeu with someone... never dreaming that I would get to! It was wonderful, and the weather could not have been any more lovely! The evening was pretty typical, but strange for me as I realized how many things were being done "for the last time". For the sake of my own emotions, I tried to ignore that fact and pretended it was “just another night”. We watched a light, funny movie together, and Paul returned from his visit to Vienna later in the evening. Jessica and I stayed up together to do the midnight turn, and used that time to play cards together in the family room. No visit together is complete without a couple good games of "nerds"! J It was a fun time together, although I think a little bittersweet too. I laughed so much and so hard during the last few days in Belgium with Jessica. There's nothing like a great friend to do that to and with you! After the midnight turn I finished up last minute packing and could not get to sleep until about 1:30 a.m. I had a lot on my mind and heart!

Lundi - 8 Octobre, 2007 -
The day that I thought would never come the week I arrived, is here, and now I wonder how it came so quickly! 3 months is definitely enough time to settle into life and a new routine and household... it is very strange to think about leaving all that behind and starting again back home...
The good-byes were very difficult, as I had anticipated. On the good side, the difficult good-bye was indicative and affirming to me of how special our time and relationship has been and become over these past 3 months. Rebecca and her family have become precious friends to me, and it was such an incredible privilege to get to know and live life with them for 3 months!
Norma came and picked Jessica and me up and to take us to the airport. It seemed appropriate somehow that Norma, my wonderful Belgian tour guide, should be the one to take me to the airport for my departure from Belgium. Everything at the airport in Brussels and on the flight to Philadelphia went very smoothly. So smoothly, in fact, that it was almost boring. I joke that the most exciting thing that happened the whole flight over was that when we were given our meal options I asked for the chicken dish and was given the pasta. Pretty thrilling, huh?! :-) The Brussels airport was an incredibly fascinating place though, and I was glad I got there early and had some time to “sight-see”! To get to my gate, I chose to walk rather than take the moving sidewalk, knowing that I would be sitting for quite awhile that day! I was so glad I did walk, as it also gave me a chance to take in more of the airport and see some really neat people! :-) As I walked by various gates, I found it so fascinating to see the different groups of people congregated there, and it became a bit of a game to figure out where they were headed before checking my guesses with the signs. At one gate was a crowd of Africans, and sure enough, their flight was headed to a city in Africa. Another gate consisted of many men in turbans, and wouldn't you know it... they were heading to Delhi, India! Yet another gate had many Orthodox Jews standing around. You can guess where that flight might have been headed! Walking down to my gate (which I was pleased to see was at the far end of the airport --- gave me a chance to see more neat people groups!), was kind of like one last "hurrah" of my international experience and exposure from this trip. I shall miss it! There just isn’t the same incredible international mix of languages, countries, cultures, and ethnic groups here in the states as there seems to be in Europe. As I mentioned previously, the flight to Philadelphia was about 8 hours of incredibly uninteresting-ness. We got into Philadelphia 45 minutes ahead of schedule, which was nice as I was able to get through Customs and Border Patrol without rushing. I eventually got to my terminal for my flight to Columbus, only to find that my flight departure had been delayed from 5:45 to 7:00 p.m. So what was originally supposed to be just over a 2 hour layover turned into a four and a half hour layover. I spent the extra time resting and people-watching… there’s always plenty to see at an airport! J The time went by relatively quickly, despite the challenge of knowing my family was so close and yet so far away. Once we finally boarded the flight to Columbus a little before 7:00, we sat in a plane traffic jam for about 45 minutes and then finally took off a little past 7:30 p.m. EST. Everything went smoothly on that flight as well. Amazingly, it was the first in ALL of my flights to and from Brussels in which I had somebody next to me! I asked the man if Columbus was his final destination, and he mumbled an "uh-huh" and started reading his newspaper. I got the message, so it was a pretty quiet ride back. :-)
Once in Columbus, I practically ran through the nearly empty and eerily quiet airport to the exit from the “secure” part of the airport. There I found, to my absolute joy, delight, and surprise, a WONDERFUL welcoming committee of many of my favorite people!!!! My whole family was there (except for my oldest brother who lives in Cincinnati), plus a bunch of great friends! What joy! What excitement! My exhaustion was pushed aside for a few minutes while I enjoyed just seeing and hugging everybody again! Oh, how very special, special friends are to see when you have been physically separated for an extended length of time! Thank you dear ones for coming and being there! It was WONDERFUL to have you there to welcome me back! We arrived home a short while later and I happily toured the house noticing all the new additions or changes that have occurred in the last 3 months! In a crazy mix between utter exhaustion and highline adrenalin, I couldn't get to sleep right away. We ate and talked for awhile and I finally headed to bed around 11:15 p.m.... about 5:15 a.m. Belgian time. I slept hard through the night until about 5:30 when I woke up quite wide awake. Guess that's my body introducing me to the concept of jet lag?! :-) It's WONDERFUL to be home again and I'm looking forward to the following weeks of seeing friends again, settling into the routine here, and getting to share some more of the stories and pictures from my Bit of Belgium!
Mardi - 9 Octobre, 2007 – First full day back. Wow. So many things are the same here, and yet so many things are different… or even if they are the same, I see them differently. I spent the day unpacking, resting, and just enjoying the time with my family and the critters here at home. We went to my brother’s soccer game this evening, and I was entertained by my ability to read all the store signs and understand the conversations around me in public. J I also was reminded of the time zone different when I began to feel exhausted at about 6 p.m. our time, which my body was telling me was really midnight! Tomorrow will be the first time I’ll drive since I left. It’s a strange and almost scary thought! Some of the “differences” in Belgium that I didn’t even realize or had gotten used to are now coming back as I notice them here. Flushing toilets and turning on and off lights is different. Driving signs, roads, and styles are different, and the food sure is different. (My Mom’s doing a great job keeping it tasty and good though!) Knowing that I was going to be facing some reverse culture shock in returning has made these first few days back a fun adventure… never knowing what I’ll be surprised or humored by next!

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And now here’s the part where I don’t know what to say.

The End would not be truthful, since this is not the end… Good-bye would be too sad, and I don’t want this to be the end of our communicating and friendship… A la prochaine (To the next) could be a lie, because only God knows if or when there will be another Bits from Belgium (I hope and pray so!).

I guess I’m going to conclude with a short quote from Rick Warren’s “Purpose Driven Life” which I read while in Belgium. This quote was very real and true to me these past 3 months as I was apart from all the people, places, and experiences I ever knew before, and through that leaving, I gained oh, so much more than I ever could have imagined! I hope and pray that all of you have or will get to experience at some point in your life the reality of the following quote and that you may “…have power, together with all the saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge…”

"You'll never know that God is all you need until God is all you’ve got."

With Overflowing Love and Gratitude to you all for the incalculable ways you have been a gift to me!

~ MB

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“God wants us to make ourselves available to Him, and to say before we start to plan, ‘Lord, tell me what You want me to do, where You want me to go, how You want me to do it.’ Then our omnipotent God, with all the abundance of heaven at His disposal, will pour out His power upon us. Instead of following tiny, tiny plans, God wants to open heaven and flood us…” – Evelyn Christenson “What Happens When Women Pray”
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--- www.mbbelgium.blogspot.com ---

Tuesday, October 9, 2007

Back in Blacklick, Ohio, United States of America

Bonjour, Hola, and Hello Everybody!!!!

Thank you for your prayers and patience! I will send a more "Mary-Beth-style" update later, but for now this e-mail is just to let you all know that I arrived safe and sound around 9:00 p.m. last night (3:00 a.m. Belgium time) to Blacklick, Ohio, United States, and home with my family!

Will fill you in on the details later! :-) I'm off to take a nap... It's just about bed-time in Belgium! :-O

'Tis WONDERFUL to be back home, and so far, other than being a little very tired, the adjustment back home is going very well!

A la prochaine,
Mary Beth

Sunday, October 7, 2007

27 hours and counting...



Greetings to One and All!!

Amazingly, unbelievably, wonderfully, sadly, and exciting-ly, I am savoring the last few hours of my adventure in Belgium. My bags are [almost] completely packed, and at about 9:15 a.m. Belgium Time (3:15 a.m. Ohio time!), tomorrow, I will be heading to the airport for a rather long day of cross-country travel! As with the trip out here, I am actually looking forward to the day of travel. I enjoy airports and flying and just about everything that goes with it. :-) Thank you for your prayers as well though... they always help! :-) The good-byes have so far gone well, although the hardest ones are tomorrow... thank you for your prayers for that as well!

Looking back, it feels like I just arrived only a week ago! It is amazing to me that three months have gone by in the blink of an eye! Little things are reminding me how long I've been gone, however... the thought of having a cell phone, driving a car, understanding billboards and package labels without stopping and wracking my brain for French or Dutch vocabulary, comprehending what just about everybody around me is saying, etc. Perhaps naiively, I am actually looking forward to experiencing some reverse-culture shock, as I am curious to see what kinds of things I've grown accustomed to here that will seem strange at first upon my return to Ohio. :-)

To my dearest friends and family in Ohio... you have no idea how excited I am to see you all again!!!! Being away from you all for so long has only deepened my love, admiration, and appreciation for you!! Saying I can't wait to see you would be an understatement! :-)

Wishing you all a wonderful Monday tomorrow!

In His Love,
MB

Thursday, October 4, 2007

Belgium Pictures - Week 12

A picture of two of "the girls" on my bed. Hopy is the 18+ year old on the left, and Maddie is the young pup on the right. The presence of these girls, (plus Molly, who was not there to be photographed), have helped me so much during my stay!
Lake Genval as the leaves begin to change. It's as gorgous as ever!!!! :-)
This is Scotch, the handsome Labrador that the owner of one of the Genval pharmacies owns. The dog goes to the pharmacy most days, and sleeps on a towel in the back. On a visit to the pharmacy, Annie happened to mention me and my interest in dogs, and voila! Before I knew it, I was invited to go play/work with the pharmacy owner's dog! I didn't do a whole lot with him, but I did enjoy playing ball and wearing him out, and the only language he knows other than body language is French, so that was an interesting experience for me! :-) It was so neat to get to play with a retriever again, and he was so sweet and good looking too! :-)
JESSICA IS HERE!!!!!!!!!! Jessica arrived about 2 hours later than originally scheduled, but no worse the wear! It was SO exciting to see her come out of the flight exit area! WELCOME TO BELGIUM Jessica!
Jessica and I at the airport. I had the privilige of going to the airport to help pick her up. SO SPECIAL!!! We will get to enjoy 4 more days together before I head back to the states. You can pray that the transition for both of us and the Petries goes well and that her time here goes well! Love ya Jessica! :-D


Bits From Belgium - Week 12

~ Psalm 91:1-2 ~

Bonjour les amis et la famille!

Oh, where to begin... and how to end?!

... "It is a strange feeling when one reaches the end of a journey. Of course there is a sense of accomplishment. It is rewarding to have pursued something and achieved it. But then there is also the remorse of having to leave that pursuit behind. Add to that the excitement, expectation, and fear of the journey that lies ahead. The end of a journey is as much of a beginning as it is an end."

I recently read this quote from a friend, and it nicely summarizes some of the feelings and thoughts I've had as I near the end of what has turned out to be an incredible, wonderful, life-changing adventure!!!! As you may already know, this Bits from Belgium is the last you will receive from me while I am actually in Belgium. Next week at this time I should be at home with my family in Ohio, United States. It is hard to identify and describe the mixture of emotions that have gone through me this week. Actually, I should rephrase that. It's not hard to identitfy the emotions, because they're pretty much all there! It is hard to describe them though! :-) It's a strange thing to be so terribly excited and yet so terribly sad about the very same event! I tell people that I'll leave Belgium with tears of sadness and will arrive in Columbus, Ohio with tears of joy!
I will be bringing home with me so much more than the (now heavier ;-) luggage, and enough stories, photos, and memories to last a lifetime! :-) This journey has had its share of ups and downs, twists and turns, trials and errors, but the One thing (Person) I needed most has remained stable and with me these 85 days, and for that I am eternally grateful! Truly, the joy of the Lord has been my strength!
I look forward with great anticipation to seeing, feeling, and hugging you all again! E-mail and letters have been wonderful, but there's nothing like the you in real life! :-) Your dedicated reading of 'the Bits', excellent contact in keeping me informed of life back "in the states", and faithful prayers have been incredibly answered and appreciated! Did I ever tell you how grateful I am for you?!


On to the "Bits" from Week 12...
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Jeudi - 27 Septembre , 2007 - A very "normal" day. Paul returned this evening from his visit to northern Africa, bringing with him some very lovely gifts! He gave me a "tooled", small brass plate that is incredibly and intricately hand-done! He also gave me a small, beautiful, hand-made box of wood that will be a lovely case for jewelry or something of that sort. Thank you Paul!

Vendredi - 28 Septembre, 2007 - Another relatively "normal" day. My dog training urge started to bubble up a bit, so I worked with Molly a bit on learning to army crawl. :-) I also made a spaghetti and stir-fried zuchinni dinner. Not much else to report.

Samedi - 29 Septembre, 2007 - This morning I rode around the Brussels suburbs area with Hans and Norma Fischer and stopped at a Kringwinkel. The weather was rainy and "sleepy". We had a couple who are very good friends of the Petries over for a lovely lunch. Watched the movie Amazing Grace again and loved it just as much as last time... if not more! :-) I tried to trim Maddie and worked a bit with her on retrieving a ball on command. She's so much fun to work with because she's so smart and eager to please!

Dimanche - 30 Septembre, 2007 - A beautiful day! Having several rainy days in a row always seems to make a beautiful day all the more beautiful! :-) This morning there was an incredible fog that was sooo pretty and stuck around until mid-morning. This afternoon I was able to go out for a walk to... you guessed it... Lac Genval! I always enjoy these walks so much. Being a lovely Sunday afternoon, there were a LOT of people there, and such variety! People dressed professionally, joggers, young families, elderly couples, paired up teens, and just about everything in between! It was the same with their dogs... big dogs, small dogs, tiny dogs, old, young, hairy, and short haired dogs. Jack russells, Labradors, a Newfoundland, pug, westie, gordon setter, yorkie, boxer... they were all there. :-) Amazingly, I also heard TWO people speaking various forms of English as well! There is something about walking around a lovely lake surrounded by people of such variety in every way that is beautiful, exciting, and enjoyable. Another thing I have noticed about Europe compared to the U.S. is the high level of PDA (public display of affection), and not just among teens. I SO enjoy seeing many elderly couples walking hand in hand around the lake, not to mention the other couples of various ages! I also see alot of gentlemen carrying the purses and bags of their female friends without a blush or sign of embarassment. So many little, fascinating cultural differences that never cease to intrigue me!

Lundi - 1 Octobre, 2007 - Another rainy, chilly day. Paul and Rebecca went out to lunch today, and we had the privilige of helping Rebecca get all ready to go. They looked lovely, all dressed up, and enjoyed a nice Chinois (Chinese) meal right by the lake. After they left for lunch, Annie and I hopped into her car and also headed to the lake for lunch. We ate at a lovely Italian restaurant (where the hostess spoke French with an Italian accent :-) We also got to eat right by the lake, and it was really lovely! The trees are just starting to change color here, and it was soothing and beautiful to watch the raindrops on the lake, thousands or millions at a time, each making its own little circle of water around it. The waterbirds were fascinating to observe as well. One in particular kept diving under the water for several seconds at a time, and would then pop back up out of the water quite a distance away. I enjoyed a pesto spaghetti and had a wonderful time visiting with Annie and learning a bit more French! It was the first time we had done anything like this together, and was a very nice time. We got back to the Petries just as they got back, and had a pretty quiet, peaceful afternoon and evening.

Mardi - 2 Octobre, 2007 - Another damp day with rain on and off. My friend Jessica departed for Belgium this evening, and naturally I was thinking about and praying for her a lot today! I also enjoyed preparing her room for her arrival in the few spare moments I had throughout the day. We changed sheets, cleaned the room (whoever was there before was messy! :-O), moved my stuff out, (ooops, it was moi in the room before! :-), and enjoyed adding little bits and pieces that will hopefully make her feel welcome and at home. Jessica will be staying in the room I inhabited, and I moved into the small guest room next door for the next few nights. Otherwise a pretty "typical" day. I did the midnight turn tonight, and as I settled down to sleep I thought of Jessica again, who was just boarding her plane in Ohio and getting ready to head our way!!!

Mercredi - 3 Octobre, 2007 -
JESSICA IS HERE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :-D I got up this morning and checked my e-mail, which turned out to be a good thing, since Jessica's Dad had e-mailed to let me know that her plane was two hours delayed and not scheduled to arrive until about 2 hours later than the original arrival time. (Thank you sooooo much Mr. Heskett for letting me know!!!!) So the morning consisted of several phone calls back and forth with Hans & Norma, who were scheduled to pick me up and then head to the airport to pick up Jessica. After some scheming, Hans and Norma offered to take me out to lunch and pick up Jessica afterwards. We enjoyed a lunch in the Ikea cafeteria (Ikea is a HUGE department-ish store, plus a nice cafeteria/food court). I had meatballs and frites (aka French Fries). After eating, we headed to the airport and made our way to the arrival gate. It was nice to get a glimpse of where I will need to go and be next week, since it was a part of the airport I did not see last time. We made it to the arrival gate, and sure enough, it looked just like what it looked like when I came through those doors... not so very long ago! The only difference was that I was on the receiving end this time! We scanned the area to see if Jessica had arrived yet, but didn't see her in sight and settled by the gates to intently watch all the passengers coming out. I was surprised by own level of excitement and nervousness. It was SO hard to wait and watch people come out without them being Jessica. But then, at last (you know, like 5 minutes or so... but it seemed so long! :-), I saw Jessica come around the corner, and we saw eachother immediately! Oh, what joy and excitement to see my friend here! It is such a strange and wonderful thing to see somebody you know and love in a context so far and so different from that which we normally see eachother! Jessica had a good, but not uneventful trip here, but looked great and was amazingly not wiped out! We headed to the Fischers' car and back to the Petrie's. It Seeing all the sights and scenery that I remember passing by in awe not so many weeks ago brought back many memories and emotions from that first day here. Now I had the privilige of reliving it with Jessica! The rest of the evening and afternoon consisted for the normal care with Rebecca, plus helping Jessica get settled in and know the house and her room and all. We made chicken enchiladas for dinner, which I was hoping to surprise Jessica with, but then ended up preparing with her. :-) She'd been here only a few hours and was already cooking with me! Amazin! :-) After dinner we went for a short walk up the street and I pointed out some of the things I liked or noticed from here. We also got on our computers and e-mailed our families to let them know Jessica had arrived safely, and then e-mailed eachother back and forth, laughing and talking to eachother in our next-door rooms as well. It is SO neat to have Jessica here, and I'm looking forward to our next few day together! She's handling the time change and routine adjustment incredibly well! I wish I looked that good when I arrived! ;-)

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Blessings in Belgium:
* The amazing people I'm getting to meet and learn about!
* The giving of time and self from other people, which has allowed me to see and do what I have!
* The knowledge and experiences I am gaining here in areas so different from those I had at home!
* The ability to communicate with "all ya'll" at home and throughout the U.S.!
* The beauty of this place and the world we live in!
* The amazing privilige it is to be here in this place, doing what I'm doing, with the people I'm with!
* The surprising enjoyment I have found in the challenge of learning and practicing a bit of the French language!
* God's faithfulness and grace each and every day...
* God's little and big miracles I've gotten to experience and grow in faith through
* The ways I've been "pushed" to grow up and do things I may not have dreamed of doing before this!
* The ability to be able to capture and share some of this experience through pictures, videos, and e-mails!
* The prayers of my friends and family and the many ways I've seen them answered... faith builders indeed!
* JESSICA arriving safely and doing well so far in the adjustment!
* The opportunity to share this experience with a dear friend and also get to spend a few days together before I leave!
* 3 months gone by in a blink of an eye... sometimes a blessing, sometimes not so much! :-/

Prayer Requests:
* That I can be humble and serve the way Jesus has taught and demonstrated
* That I might decrease so that He might increase
* That I can love, be a light, and bless those I interact with both here, on the trip back, and back in Ohio!
* That I will be in tune with and always seeking and listening for His guidance throughout each moment and day
* That I will continue to be open and moldable to the "good work" God is able to do in me here, at home, and throughout the rest of my life!
* That Jessica can continue to settle in quickly and smoothly (she sure has so far!)
* That I can explain and help Jessica learn all the tasks and ways we do things here without confusing her too much, (smile), and that we can make the "changing of the guard" a smooth adjustment for the Petries and Annie!
* That I and my friends and family will be able to smoothly prepare and handle my "re-entry" to life in Ohio! :-)
* Safe and almost uneventful (but not too boring! ;-) travel back to the U.S. on Monday
* Smooth good-byes :-(
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Only one more "Bits [not from] Belgium" left! You can heave a sigh of relief or sadly savor these last two Bits, depending on your perspective. :-) I have truly enjoyed writing them and have really appreciated your feedback and encouragement as well!

Have a lovely week until "la prochaine"!

Amour,

~ MB

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"There is no growth without change; there is no change without fear or loss; and there is no loss without pain. Every change involves a loss of some kind: you must let go of old ways in order to experience the new. We fear these losses, even if our old ways were self-defeating, because, like a worn out pair of shoes, they were at least comfortable and familiar." - Rick Warren "Purpose Driven Life"
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Thursday, September 27, 2007

Week 11 Pictures - Part II

Norma and I getting ready to indulge in a Belgian chocolate bar in Brugge. Note what the bar says... :-) (Which, ironically, I must have eating so quickly I didn't notice, because it wasn't until I was home and downloading the pictures that I saw what it said! :-)

Sitting in a boat waiting for a tour down the canals of beautiful Brugge!!!
Beautiful Brugge... even on a wet, chilly day!
Brugge's most photographed corner, apparently. I of course, had to make my contribution to the effort! :-)


Week 11 Pictures

Lake Genval on a BEAUTIFUL, September day! (Note the rainbow in the fountain! How neat is that?!)
Standing in front of a sign on my way to Lake Genval...
Another rainbow, this time on the drive up to Brugge! We saw an UNCOUNTABLE number of rainbows on the rainy/sunny ride up! I love rainbows! God is faithful!
A windmill in Brugge. Brugge is known for its windmills, canals, lace, tapestry, and of course chocolate. It is such a charming, quaint city!
In true Belgian fashion, 'tis me with an umbrella, in the rain, in front of a canal, in Brugge, Belgium.

Bits from Belgium - Week 11

~ Psalm 91:1-2 ~

Bonjour les amis et la famille!

It seems like I just finished my e-mail update from last week, and yet here I am sending out an update about Week 11 already! Next week will be the last Bits from Belgium that will actually be from Belgium. Wow. It's strange and exciting to think about coming back to Ohio and my friends and family!!! In many ways it feels like I've only been here for a few days and am going/coming back so soon. There are so many more people I could get to know, places I could go, things to do here, and lessons to learn! I realize when I get home, however, and see so many things that have changed, I will realize just how long I've been gone! And when I think about seeing you all again, I am filled with SO much excitement and can hardly wait to see you and hug you and be with you again!
I feel like my time here has been a very intense and important time of learning and growth. It has opened up a lot of doors to me both obviously and in ways only God and I may know. It has helped me get to know myself as God desires and has designed me and has led me through experiences I could never have dreamed of being a part of and am SO incredibly thankful for! Sometimes I worry that all this will stop or slow down when I return. It was encouraging to be reminded that God says "He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus." There is soooo much work that needs to be done in me, and it certainly won't be left or end here in Belgium! A recent quote I read fits with what I've been mulling over this week...
"Since every moment is the beginning of the rest of your life, and every moment is the end of the past, every moment should be governed by the glad affections of both gratitude and faith... " We should be "continually humbled by our backward look of gratitude and continually emboldened by our forward look of faith!" - John Piper "Life as a Vapor"

Looking forward to seeing you all SOON!!!


This week's bits from Belgium...
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Jeudi - 20 Septembre , 2007 - Nice day today. Warm with a cool breeze. Very Fall-like and the sky is so beautifully blue! The day was pretty quiet and typical. I did some more flower picking and arranging per Rebecca's request... ;-)
A funny incident also occured today with Susannah Petrie (Rebecca's daughter) & I. Susannah is trying to learn some Spanish because she works with quite a few people from Spain, so she has been practicing some words and phrases with us. (She's already fluent in English and French!) Anyhow, we were in Rebecca's room chatting together and Annie knocked on the door to come in. Simultaneously, Susannah and I both said "Yes"... but the funny thing was that neither of us said it in English! I said "Oui" and Susannah said "Si" both at the exact same time and way! We just looked at eachother and burst out laughing because both of us had responded at the same instant without any planning or forethought and had both replied in the respecive languages we are learning! :-)

Vendredi - 21 Septembre, 2007 - GORGOUS DAY!!!! Warm, sunny, breezy. We ate dinner outside today. A pretty busy day today with a visitor from Alabama who will be here until Monday, plus four other visitors, the morning and evening nurse, and the physical therapist all coming and going throughout the course of the day! Susannah made a fabulous dinner of grilled turkey burgers and vegies and we worked together to make a pasta salad. Dessert consisted of a pear pie from the fresh pears off the Petrie tree. The recipe came from one of the Petries' friends from Israel who visited in August. The "pie" looked more like a cobbler or crisp, but tasted just fine... I don't think it mattered that it didn't look like it's name! :-)

Samedi - 22 Septembre, 2007 - The weather was again AMAZING! The morning and afternoon was typical, but this evening the Christensens (friends of the Petries) came over and grilled delicious chicken wings and we had a feast. :-) I made another pear "pie" and a pear/apple "pie" like the one I made the other day. Before the Christensens left this evening they had a short time of worship led by Chris on the guitar in Rebecca's room. The music and singing was lovely and it was so special to be in live worship again. Didn't realize how much I'd missed it! It was a very peaceful, enjoyable time and boy did I sleep well!

Dimanche - 23 Septembre, 2007 - All's fine here. The weather was gorgous again today. Sunny, warm, and perfect temperatures. I got in a walk to the lake and around it in the afternoon. It was as beautiful as always! I had my camera with me and was able to get some especially neat pictures of the sun making a rainbow in the water fountain. Wish you could have seen it in real life! LOVELY!!! Had our usual Sunday evening popcorn and TV watching together. We watched some more episodes about a humorous, obsessive/compulsive detective Monk as he solves mysteries.

Lundi - 24 Septembre, 2007 - A lovely morning - very windy and cool with sun and big, white puffy clouds. These clouds piled up as the day went on, and by early afternoon it was raining. Paul left for a short visit to northern Africa. He will be back Thursday. Our guest from Alabama, also left today, so things went from quite lively and loud to quiet and very un-exciting in a very short amount of time! Seems to happen both ways here quite often! We had a quiet afternoon and watched some BBC James Herriot videos, which follow the books quite closely and were enjoyable. To anybody who is not a fan of the James Herriot veterinary stories or British humor, (or should I say humour?) the videos can be quite boring, however I have read enough of his books and have enough of an interest in the subject that I really did enjoy watching the videos. I will have Maddie with me tonight and through Weds. since Paul is gone. :-)

Mardi - 25 Septembre, 2007 - A pretty typical day here. We had the usual incoming and outgoing of people plus the predictable unpredictable-ness of surprises and excitement, peace, and quiet. This evening is the night before a full moon, and just as it has been the past two months, the moon here is very bright and beautiful. At about 11 p.m., Rebecca and I basked in the moonlight in her room. I pulled her bed over by the window where the moonlight shined down on us and formed shadows in Rebecca's beautiful garden and through the pear tree. It was so lovely and something that even my camera, writing, or words cannot capture...

Mercredi - 26 Septembre, 2007 -
I got up early, helped Rebecca get up for the morning, and then got picked up by Norma, who has unofficially become my official Belgian personal tour guide! Today, Norma drove me through more Belgian countryside and up to the lovely, very quaint city of Brugge/Bruges, in northwestern Belgium! The weather on the way up was most fascinating, as it was a sunny, misty morning when we left, but gradually become more and more cloudy as we drove. We drove through several rain showers and then back into sun. During the drive, we had the privilige of watching God paint the sky over 5 times with various beautiful rainbows!!! I took some photos of them, but once again, the photos don't come even near to displaying how lovely they were! By the time we got to Brugge, it was raining pretty steadily and rather chilly. We visited a nice kringwinkel in Brugge first hoping the rain would let up a bit. When it didn't, we decided to go ahead and make the plunge (literally! :-). With umbrella in hand, we walked together through a bit of Brugge, stopping to check out the lace, chocolate, and tapestry shops. We purchased a chocolate bar and split it and stood inside the chocolate shop eating it. We headed back down the streets in the rain afterwards, but gradually the rain let up until it completely stopped! It barely sprinkled the rest of our time in Brugge, until we got in the car to leave. :-) Thank you God! Brugge, like Brussels, is GORGOUS! It is sometimes referred to as "the mini-Venice" because of it's beautiful canals that run through the city! Among the many beautiful medieval buildings is the "Church of Our Lady", whose 122 meter brick spire makes it one of the world's highest brick towers/buildings. This church also contains a Madonna by Michelangelo. We didn't go into the church, but did get to enjoy walking around the main square of the city, and I also enjoyed a boat ride through the canals of Brugge, giving me a lovely, small taste of the city. The boat tour guide said everything three times... in English, French, and Flemish! After all the pictures I took last week in Brussels, the bets were being cast back at the Petrie household as to how many pictures I was going to take during the day in Brugge. :-) No need to fear, there are plenty of pictures to share with you about today! ;-)
Like almost all of Belgium, I found Brugge to be quaint, beautiful beyond words, very "European", and very comfortable to be in. On the way home, Norma and I stopped at several more kringwinkels. I got home in time to eat dinner, watch part of a movie with Rebecca and Annie, and then make a few phone calls back to Ohio before heading to bed very tired and very happy.

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Blessings in Belgium:
* The amazing people I'm getting to meet and learn about!
* The giving of time and self from other people, which has allowed me to see and do what I have!
* The knowledge and experiences I am gaining here in areas so different from those I had at home!
* The ability to communicate with "all ya'll" at home and throughout the U.S.!
* The beauty of this place and the world we live in!
* The amazing privilige it is to be here in this place, doing what I'm doing, with the people I'm with!
* The surprising enjoyment I have found in the challenge of learning and practicing a bit of the French language!
* God's faithfulness and grace each and every day...
* God's little and big miracles I've gotten to experience and grow in faith through
* The ways I've been "pushed" to grow up and do things I may not have dreamed of doing before this!
* The ability to be able to capture and share some of this experience through pictures, videos, and e-mails!
* The prayers of my friends and family and the many ways I've seen them answered... faith builders indeed!

Prayer Requests:
* That I can be humble and serve the way Jesus has taught and demonstrated
* That I might decrease so that He might increase
* That I can love, be a light, and bless those I interact with
* That I will be in tune with and always seeking and listening for His guidance throughout each moment and day
* That I will continue to be open and moldable to the "good work" God is able to do in me here, at home, and throughout the rest of my life!
* That my dear friend Jessica H., who will be arriving in 1 week (!!!!!) will have smooth and peaceful preparation for coming here and a safe trip! I can't wait to see her! :-D
* That I and my friends and family will be able to smoothly prepare and handle my "re-entry" to life in Ohio in a week and half...
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Thank you again and again for your prayers and encouraging e-mails and notes!

A la prochaine!

~ MB

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"It is easy for us to imagine that we will suddenly come to a point in our lives where we are fully prepared, but preparation is not suddenly accomplished. In fact, it is a process that must be maintained. It is dangerous to become settled and complacent in our present level of experience." - Oswald Chambers "My Utmost for His Highest"
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Wednesday, September 19, 2007

Week 10 Pictures - Part III

Chocolate shop in Brussels, Belgium. Picture one of these every block or so throughout most of central Brussels... Mmmmm...
C'est Moi with a backdrop of Brussels, Belgium.
This is me in the park of the king. It is just across from the palace and used to be used as a hunting grounds. It is very much a park now. :-)
A bread store in Brussels. I LOVE the bread here!
A lace shop in Brussels. Belgium is known for its "Belgian lace", so I had to get a picture of it. :-)

Week 10 Pictures - Part II

This is how lace is made... the lady said she has over 100 of those spools, and she has to remember which fine thread is attached to each one in order to know where it goes to follow the lace pattern! I'm glad I can appreciate the making of lace without having to do it myself! :-O
That would be me with the Hoielaart town hall in the background. This was taken at the grape festival.
The Hoeilaart Town Hall.
There are a lot of "random" entertainers around Brussels and other Belgian events. This man was at the Hoeilaart grape festival. Unfortunately you can't see very well, but he is pushing a baby buggy and inside are a bunch of blankets and a bedpan with a face painted on it. He also has a bike horn attached to the carriage. In addition, he was holding a flexi dog leash that was dragging a little cart with... a fish tank filled with water and several plasti fish. :-) Quite a character! When I took this picture he was telling a lady about his baby... :-) When I get home you'll have to ask me to tell you about some of the other street entertainers I've seen...
That would be me... in Belgium... with buckeye nuts. OSU students and fans, you're a little more far-reaching than I think you realize!


Week 10 Pictures

Flea Market in Waterloo, Belgium. One man's junk could be another man's treasure... or not.
(p.s. Yes, that's a McDonald's sign in the background :-)
Belgian Blue cattle, native to... BELGIUM! (Note the double-muscling, a genetically inherited trait in this breed. Only an animal science grad would care to know or share that info :-)
Moi with a Big, Lovable, Adorable, Sweet Bernese Mountain dog! Yeah for a big dog fix!
Getting a kiss from a very handsome Belgian boy! :-) This pup is in training to be a guide dog in Belgium. He is trained in Flemish/Dutch, but thankfully that didn't impeed our interactions or communication. :-)
The sign for the Belgian guide dog school in French and Flemish/Dutch.

Bits from Belgium - Week 10

~ Psalm 71:14-17 ~

Bonjour les amis et la famille!

Week 10! For those of you with wearied eyes from reading my last 9 weeks of updates... here's some good news! There are only 2 more "Bits from Belgium" before I'll be back in the United States, (plus one from that last 1/2 week as well probably!). Then it will be up to you whether you would like to delve into my verbal stash of memories and stories or view the 100+ pictures and video clips I've garnered during my time here!
Looking backwards, I can't believe 3 months could fly by so quickly! I remember when I got here I thought it would be like forever! (I can read my journal to prove it! :-) Sometimes I feel like I just got here, and the more I see, the more I realize how much more there is to see! That said, I am perfectly content and thrilled with all I have seen and experienced. If I get to see and experience more of Europe before I leave... GREAT! If I spend the next 19 days here in the Petrie house in Genval, I have no doubt that that time will be just as rich and filled with knowledge and experiences to be brought home and carried through the rest of my life. Either way will be.... GREAT! :-) It's been a busy week and I seem to have been even more long-winded than usual on my daily bits, so I'll get right on to the not so bitty bits from Week 10!

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Jeudi - 13 Septembre , 2007 - BEAUTIFUL weather today! It was sunny most of the day and the temperature was lovely. Rather typical day here. I got to sleep in this morning again after doing the midnight turn for the third day in a row. That's the longest stretch I've done midnights for, but it's actually been fine, and I've not been very tired at all! In the afternoon I did some flower picking and arranging for Rebecca... something I don't consider myself very skilled at! It was kind of fun to try to be creative and use an "eye" I don't have (the "flower arranging eye!) I laughed at myself as I realized I was adding yet another thing to my list of "things I don't do at home" or "haven't tried before" that I've found myself doing here! This was even more meaningful to me as I had read just hours before in "The Purpose Driven Life" by Rick Warren, "You have dozens of hidden abilities and gifts you don't know you've got because you've never tried them out. So I encourage you to try some things you've never done before. No matter how old you are, I urge you to never stop experimenting... When it doesn't work out, call it an "experiment", not a failure..." So there's another Belgium "experiment" to add to my list! ;-)

Vendredi - 14 Septembre, 2007 - Beautiful day! Not a cloud in the sky this morning (doesn't happen very often here!), and then gradually clouded up as the day went on. Warm, but breezy and just LOVELY! Nothing new or terribly exciting to report... just another day to be thankful to be alive!

Samedi - 15 Septembre, 2007 - The weather was GORGOUS today. We ate lunch and dinner outside. It was chilly, but SO sunny! The day was pretty quiet and typical. Annie should get back tomorrow night after visiting Paris for a few days. She doesn't get a break very often, so it worked out well for her to go visit family and enjoy some time off this week. After having Paul gone all last week, I've gotten used to being pretty busy, and it hasn't worn me out, thankfully!
The Petries have a pear tree (also a couple plum trees!). The pears have been ripening for the past few weeks and are finally about ready to be eaten. Some are falling onto the ground and are easily picked up (if you beat the birds, the dogs, and the bacteria and fungus to them! :-), but most are still on the tree, just out of my reach. I am hoping to make a pear tart thing from a recipe I received from the Petries' friends from Israel about a month ago. I've been slowly collecting pears that I could reach, but finally came up with the idea of "pear ball" to "harvest" some of the higher ripe pears on the tree. The game goes something like this... 1. find hard, good sized, icky pear on ground and pick up. 2. Toss pear into tree aiming for pear of choice. 3. If lucky, thrown pear will hit hanging pear and knock it to the ground where it will be picked up and brought inside. It's kind of a new version of poole or boche ball! :-) When you're 5 foot, 2 and 3/4 inches, sometimes it takes creativity to get what you want or need! :-)

Dimanche - 16 Septembre, 2007 - I got up early this morning and got picked up by friends Hans and Norma (the same Norma that took me to the kringwinkels and Waterloo!), who took me to a flea market in Waterloo. Apparently this flea market goes on just about every Sunday. It's in a huge supermarket parking lot and takes up almost the whole place! It was quite a sight to see rows and rows and ROWS of furniture, dishes, nicknacks, clothes, beautiful (and not so beautiful) artwork, housewares, jewelry... and junk. It's definitely a place where "one man's trash is another man's treasure" and vice versa! Picture one big garage sale in a great big parking lot with people speaking 3 different languages (English, French, and Flemish/Dutch). A LOT of the shoppers and sellers had dogs as well, which added to the allure for me! One interesting thing I've noticed here in Belgium is how many purebred dogs there are and how much variety of breeds. In the states there seem to be more crossbreeds and the purebreds tend to be one of a few of the most popular breeds. Here I've seen some really "unusual" breeds in the states, like a Dogue de Bordeaux (hmmm... it's French... maybe it makes sense for it to be here?! :-), wirehaired pointing griffon, etc. I've seen some Belgian malinois as well, which is kind of cool considering this is their home country! :-) Sorry to stray from the topic at hand... the flea market! So, we walked up and down rows and rows looking at various things and trying to decide what, if anything, to buy. I enjoyed another chocolate filed croissant (Mmmmm), but didn't end up taking anything home from the flea market... other than some photographs on my camera, much more knowledge about a lot of things related to flea market shopping (thanks Norma!), a great new experience, and some WONDERFUL memories to add to my Belgium experience! :-)
Hans and Norma then dropped me off back "home" in time for lunch and a nice afternoon nap. Shortly after that, they called back. They had been to a street festival (Hoeilaart Grape Festival!) in their town (7 minutes away from the Petries) and had run into a booth of a guide dog organization from near here. They had actually seen signs for this organization before and told me about it, but didn't realize they would find them at this festival. Anyhow, they wondered if they could "steal me away" from the Petries again so that I could meet these people and also see some people making lace by hand. The Petries were very gracious and allowed me to desert them once again... second time in one day! :-O Norma and I went back to this festival and walked through it heading for the guide dog organization's booth. We passed many more street vendors as well as small stage with couples dressed up and square dancing (to English songs!). Norma introduced me to the people at the booth, who actually spoke relatively good English (as well as Flemish/Dutch and French!)! I spent over a 1/2 hour just visiting with them, asking questions about their organization and guide dogs in Europe and Belgium, and also got a "big dog fix"! It was WONDERFUL! There were 3 Labs there (one who reminded me SO MUCH of Jen!), an Australian shepherd, a Bernese mountain dog pet, and another shepherd mix. The dogs were great: very sweet, obedient, and beautiful. The dogs are trained in French and/or Flemish, but thankfully communicating with them isn't much different with or without a language barrier! :-) The people were very nice also and very patient with me hanging all over their dogs (with permission first, of course! :-)
The organization is tiny, as apparently most are here. They have about 10 puppy raisers and 23 graduates and purchase their dogs from breeders. ) For those interested, you can check out the website at: www.scaledogs.be . The only problem is that unless you understand Flemish/Dutch or French, you probably won't be able to understand much of the website! :-O
I definitely did not come here expecting to get to meet people like this or learn about assistance dogs in Belgium. This was SO neat and SUCH a gift! Thank you God!

Lundi - 17 Septembre, 2007 - Another warm, sunny, beautiful morning, but it gradually clouded over as the day went on and was misty and rainy in the evening. One thing about Belgium... you sure have no idea what he weather will be one hour to the next! Apparently being a meteorologist is not a very encouraging occupation out here! The Petries have a guest from Finland here tonight and tomorrow. He and his wife adopted two kids from India... the world keeps getting smaller and smaller! :-)
The Petries are having some internet problems, which thankfully don't affect the laptops and wireless computers, but do affect the internet phone that I call home on. Because of this, it's been at least a week since I called home. Sorry Dad and Mom!

Mardi - 18 Septembre, 2007 - Today's weather was about the wackiest I've experienced here or in Ohio! According to the Petries, this is "true" Belgium weather. The day began with early morning showers. By the time I got up the sky was blue, clear, and it was sunny. "Oh yeah," I thought, "Another lovely day!" Wrong. About an hour later, more dark clouds rolled in and it proceeded to downpour for about another hour. Never fear though... as soon as the downpour passed the sun was back, the sky was blue, and there were just a few white, puffy clouds in the sky. The sun sparkled on the wet flowers, trees, and bird bath in Rebecca's garden. Now imagine me taking the above and repeating it here about ten times, and you will have today's weather. :-) By lunch time I had given up counting how many times it had rained and then the sun had come out. It continued to be this way throughout the rest of the day! Do you have any idea how many times you must be thankful on a day like that if you are one who likes to thank God for the sun and the rain?! :-) Hee-hee! Anyhow, it was pretty unique to me!
The only other item of interest for a few of you is that while I was out walking I walked over an area just COVERED in nuts and old nut shells. I didn't pay much attention the first time, but on the way back I looked closer and was amazing to find that the nuts were BUCKEYES! Buckeyes in Belgium? I couldn't believe it. :-) Unfortunately I did not have my camera with me at the time, but if you would like I will return to that location with my camera and photograph the sidewalk COVERED in what I thought were only Ohio-native (grin) nuts, buckeyes. Anybody want me to bring home some Belgian Buckeyes? ;-)

Mercredi - 19 Septembre, 2007 -
I had the day off today and have been planning for the past few weeks to get up enough nerve to go into Brussels, as my Mom would say, "all by my lonesome". After my first visit into the city of Brussels, I knew I wanted to go back again before I left Belgium, but wasn't sure how or when it might work out. This week it worked out. :-) I had a quiet-ish morning sleeping in a bit and catching up on e-mails. I then grabbed some lunch, my camera, some money, train schedule, map, and a GSM (cell phone) and headed to the train station. Other than stuttering out my French request for a ticket, which the man thankfully somehow understood, everything went fine and I boarded the right train at the right time without any problems! The 1/2 hour ride into Brussels was relatively uneventful, although at one point I had some guys sitting on the same seats with me who were chattering away in French. I wonder if they realized I could only understand a word or two in each sentence? They probably just thought I was anti-social... or maybe just typical, since people here don't interact with strangers the way people might in at least the midwest U.S. Actually, since I already realize how very little French I know, it was kind of encouraging for me to realize that unintentially "eavesdropping", I could actually pick up a lot of words they were using, even if I couldn't quite follow the gist of their conversation! I THINK it had something to do with soccer teams though... :-) I got into Brussels without any problems and wondered around the train station area a bit. There are about a billion (okay, maybe a few less) exits and entrances into the station, with each one going a different direction. One goes to a large, covered mall (apparently one of the biggest in Europe), so I walked through that and then around a bit more of the train station before heading down to the Grand Place. I was very relieved to find everything as I had left it a few weeks ago after my visit with Melissa. :-) Everything was where I remembered them to be, and I had no difficulty re-visiting some of the places that I really enjoyed seeing last time... like the Grand Place and a lot of other places that I don't know the names of. :-) In addition, I wandered through the King's Garden... the garden across from the Palace, which used to be the king's hunting grounds! I found more buckeye trees there and tons and tons and TONS of buckeyes! This time I had my camera and got a few pictures. :-) Speaking of pictures, I took 177 pictures and video clips throughout my Brussels visit today. There are quite a few that won't be there after I get through editing, but I can tell you how very much I love having a digital camera on days like today! :-) I didn't really have anybody else to share the day with other than my camera, so I tried to take pictures of just about everywhere I went that left an impression so that I can relive it when I come back home and share the stories with you! :-) There are a lot of English speakers in Brussels as well, which makes for a nice change. :-) I'm afraid I really am going to be in some reverse culture shock when I get home. You mean I will be able to understand and communicate with almost everybody around me?! No way! :-D You don't realize what a privilige that is until it's gone! (just another one of those things to add to my list! :-) In addition to re-visiting some spots, I also walked further throughout Brussels and discovered some beautiful churches, gardens, and views that I had not seen last time. Brussels is so neat, as you can walk down various streets and suddenly come across incredibly beautiful sites that you had no idea were there or were totally not expecting! I also did a bit of shopping and enjoyed the free taste-testing while in the chocolate shops. One could almost make a whole meal out of chocolatier shop stops! :-O I had intended to stay in Brussels for just a few hours and then head back to Genval, thinking I would get bored. The time went quickly, however, and I ended up staying for over 4 hours! I was on my feet almost the entire 4 hours walking throughout Brussels and had not realized how tired I was until I came home this evening. Now my feet are telling me I must have walked miles... it's a good kind of sore though. :-) I took the 17:25 (5:25 p.m.) train back to Genval. Here's another unbelievable story... I walked into the incredibly crowded train station to take the train home. It was about 17:00/5:00... one of the busiest times there I think. People were EVERYWHERE! I was able to locate what platform the train needed would be on, and headed that way. As I arrived, there following shortly behind me down the stairs was Hans (husband of Norma) and a friend visiting from Albania! Okay, so tell me, what are the chances of me running into one of the approximately 4 people I know in the country of Belgium (other than those that live in the Petrie household!), at the train station in Brussels getting ready to hop on the very same train as I?! God sure knows how to impress me! :-) He also knows I love a little human company. :-) At any rate, it turns out Hans and this friend from Albania had missed the train they had intended to take and were therefore going to take the same train I was! And so, once again, I had most excellent company on my ride back to Genval! (They got off the stop before Genval). To some, this may not seem like that big a deal, but considering the size of Brussels, the number of people I've seen today, and the fact that neither of us had ANY IDEA that the other was in Brussels for the day, I have to believe that was a divine "coincidence"! :-) The rest of the evening here has been fine and quiet. All in all a lovely day filled with new experiences and more "growing up" opportunities! It has been nice to have the day off, and I'm looking forward to picking back up where I left off tomorrow!
p.s. The internet and phone is fixed, so I was finally able to call Mom! :-) Yeah!!!

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Blessings in Belgium:
* The amazing people I'm getting to meet and learn about!
* The giving of time and self from other people, which has allowed me to see and do what I have!
* The knowledge and experiences I am gaining here in areas so different from those I had at home
* The ability to communicate with "all ya'll" at home and throughout the U.S.!
* The beauty of this place and the world we live in!
* The amazing privilige it is to be here in this place, doing what I'm doing, with the people I'm with!
* The surprising enjoyment I have found in the challenge of learning and practicing a bit of the French language!
* God's faithfulness and grace each and every day...
* God's little and big miracles I've gotten to experience and grow in faith through
* The ways I've been "pushed" to grow up and do things I may not have dreamed of doing before this!

Prayer Requests:
* That I can be humble and serve the way Jesus has taught and demonstrated
* That I might decrease so that He might increase
* That I can love, be a light, and bless those I interact with
* That I will be in tune with and always seeking and listening for His guidance throughout each moment and day
* That I will be able to begin mentally preparing myself for my "re-entry" to life with my wonderful family in Ohio
* That I will be able to, "treasure up all these things and ponder them in my heart": that I can take home with me the lessons, changes, and experiences I've had here and use them throughout the rest of the life God has given me...
* That my dear friend Jessica H., who will be arriving in 2 weeks (!!!!!) will have smooth and peaceful preparation for coming here and a safe trip here! I can't wait to see her! :-D
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It is 3:44 Ohio time, 9:44 Belgian time. I'm about ready to go read for a bit and then consult my pillow for the evening.

It's been another week for me and another week for you. How are you doing? What's new with you? How can I be praying for you?


A la prochaine,

~ MB


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"I am, by nature, selfish. I think most about me. That's why humility is a daily struggle, a lesson I must relearn over and over. The opportunity to be a servant confronts me dozens of times a day, in which I'm given the choice to decide between meeting my needs or the needs of others. Self-denial is the core of servanthood..." - Rick Warren "Purpose Driven Life"